• shalafi@lemmy.world
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    22 hours ago

    Single-person bathrooms? Of course. Multi-person use? How many of y’all women want to share a confined space with random men?

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      22 hours ago

      Are you concerned the women are going to be attacked in the bathroom or is it about discovering that women also take shits?

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        20 hours ago

        My grandmother always said that women don’t fart, they toot. Didn’t exactly hold true when she ripped one when she thought nobody would hear her.

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          19 hours ago

          Your dad probably said she wasn’t a whore either, but you should probably consult your grandfather.

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        20 hours ago

        I dunno, maybe mothers aren’t going to want to bring their children into bathrooms men are whipping their dicks out in. Just a thought.

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          7 hours ago

          What about fathers with children? My dad brought his young daughters into the men’s room when we were out in public, because supervision is more important than the other patrons.

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            6 hours ago

            Why don’t you ask Trans Women why they don’t want to use the Men’s room any longer. Seems if there was no issue with men, I dunno, often found washing their cock, balls and assholes in the bathroom sinks, and OP’s idea that we can all be kumbaya in a Unisex bathroom, Trans Women would want to spearhead the movement, by using the Men’s rooms, but they don’t want to, and there’s an excellent reason they don’t.

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              5 hours ago

              What the fuck are you on about? Which third world do you come from where people are washing their assholes in the sink? Trans women don’t want to use the mens rooms for the same reason it was dangerous to be openly gay in the 80s.

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              That reason is that they don’t want to other themselves. If there’s no gender connotation with the room you choose, there’s no issue. Trans people are absolutely pushing for unisex bathrooms, and most women (cis and trans) are willing to use the men’s room when the other line is long enough.

              I’ve seen women doing the same thing in bathrooms, because everyone is sometimes a mess, regardless of gender.

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          11 hours ago

          I think you just need to stop doing that, as nobody else seems to be responding positively to the idea.

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          18 hours ago

          This is the second time you’ve commented about men “whipping their dicks out” in public restrooms.

          You seem to have zero worries about men bringing their children into bathrooms where women are whipping their vag out though…

          Is it because women don’t whip their vag out in public restrooms? Well, have I got news for you about what men go to the restroom for…

          (Hint: it doesn’t involve whipping.)

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            18 hours ago

            it doesn’t involve whipping

            I dunno. When I shake my dick after peeing, I like it to make a sonic boom.

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        15 hours ago

        But it keeps out around 50% of the population whose presence would deter assault. People usually don’t get assaulted in a place with a lot of random witnesses.

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          I’m glad you have zero idea about how crime works it’s actually refreshing. Just how many rapes do you think are random. Don’t most victims know their assailant?

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            We are talking about public toilets. The “random” people are stranger going for a pee.

            I was agreeing with you. I was saying that other e.g. men would walk into the toilets, so the criminal wouldn’t be alone with the victim and the criminal obviously doesn’t care about the rules. But the random e.g. men that wouldn’t enter as it is a women’s bathroom, but if it is unisex, those men would enter and would deter some crimes as there would be a witness.

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              5 hours ago

              Listen nobody has to take a shit and thinks you know what while I’m in here I could go for a random rape was my point. Fucking approaching zero percent.

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      22 hours ago

      I’m probably out of touch but…what do we actually expect to happen?

      Would guys be embarrassed that random girls might see their dick at a urinal?

      Do we expect random sex in public bathrooms?

      Disclosure that I do not have a dick.

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        Some people seem to think that public toilets need urinals and that urinals couldn’t be at e.g. the end of the toilet behind a cover, so people don’t have an accidental peek on a dick.

        On entry, A sideview of the urinals and potential dicks are mandatory. If not at least 6 women see me pee against their will, I will sue the government. Look at my dick, woman!!!/s

        People are just weird and can imagine that, like you don’t go out of your way to look at people change in locker rooms, you don’t go out of your way to see dicks on a public bathroom and that obviously unisex toilets would change how we build toilets.

        As a man, I haven’t seen an other man’s dick on the toilet in months… Honestly I think years but I don’t want to lie.

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        19 hours ago

        Why is a “girl” standing next to me at the urinal? Lol oh Thailand you got me again.

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      Well with the bathrooms divided shitty things already happen. I’d actually like to counter your point and say this’ll actually improve the issue. If someone has a bunch of guys ready to beat their ass if they do something fucked up, they might decide against it. Literally everyone in that bathroom would have to be a piece of shit person to let something like that happen whereas right now you just need one piece of shit to sneak into the other bathroom.

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        19 hours ago

        Say you’ve never been to NYC without saying it, you ever walked by a homeless guy jacking off? I’m also distrusting your “group of guys ready to beat ass hanging out in the bathroom.” Who signs up for that bedside weird perverts?

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          18 hours ago

          A random homeless dude jerking off in the streets is not even in the same ballpark as someone getting raped in a bathroom, cmon. And it’s not something you “sign up for”, if you’re not a piece of shit, you see someone in danger that you can maybe help, you try to help them. They aren’t saying there’s literally just a group of dudes sitting in a bathroom waiting for someone to try something, they’re saying in a bathroom full of dudes, there’s a pretty high chance if something does happen, they’re not all going to just sit around or walk out.

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            18 hours ago

            Lol your fucking weird. Enjoy homeless dudes jerking off your super friends in the bathroom.

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              18 hours ago

              Uhh… ok? Not sure what I did to offend you, but sorry, I think…

              Edit: can someone else tell me what’s weird? I don’t think anyone would compare seeing a mentally unwell person fondling their wiener to getting straight up assaulted, and I don’t know anyone who wouldn’t try to stop someone from being assaulted if they could help. Where am I off?

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                  17 hours ago

                  The first recruit! Your gonna have so much fun in that bathroom beating asses and jerking off with homeless dudes because that’s totally not sexual assault.

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      I absolutely would not care in the slightest. If they get weird or handsy they are getting pepper spray and charges pressed.

      Edit: typo

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        And at the same time if you had a bunch of other guys in the bathroom to beat his ass that’d be a plus too. I ain’t afraid to punch a pervert in his stupid face.

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      20 hours ago

      Maybe just better Multiperson bathrooms or single person only?

      Honestly Bukiees the gas station, has a pretty great Multiperson bathroom experience. Add just a little more to that so that they washing area can be fully public (i.e. cameras), and for some places with less traffic some occupancy sensors for the toilet rooms, and bam. We can have private, safe feeling bathrooms that can handle higher volumes. No need to have people feel like their in little assault traps regardless of gender.