I don’t avoid niche interests though. I just pick interests that interest me. Picking one for how popular or niche it was would be equally worthy of snide remarks for sure.
Same for me though, you’re just coming at me for finding it special to meet someone that also likes those niche interests because “I want to feel special”? I’m just saying I enjoy the time when my niche interests are niche because those encounters feel more meaningful.
And you wanting to avoid having niche interests is your desire to feel, ah so normal?
I don’t avoid niche interests though. I just pick interests that interest me. Picking one for how popular or niche it was would be equally worthy of snide remarks for sure.
Same for me though, you’re just coming at me for finding it special to meet someone that also likes those niche interests because “I want to feel special”? I’m just saying I enjoy the time when my niche interests are niche because those encounters feel more meaningful.