• Imgonnatrythis@sh.itjust.works
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    6 days ago

    People aren’t buying all those butt plugs for decoration. People fall asleep. I don’t imagine many people sleep with them on purpose, but certaintly possible to pass out with a butt plug in place.

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      6 days ago

      Sorry, I thought the implication was that someone intentionally slept with one in. I don’t know how you’d sleep like that.

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          1 day ago

          I’m aware of it, though I wish I wasn’t. I’m in to some weird shit but that’s too much for me. I think I’d prefer the butt plug.

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              It’s too much control or trust to place in another person. Even If I didn’t have trust issues, It’s not something I’d ever be comfortable with. Like you said, to each their own however.

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                that’s fair, though nobody said you had to involve other people, that’s just a particularly common and relevant practice. But yes ultimately at the end of the day, it only matters what we care, and don’t care for. I just find it interesting knowing why people care about certain things over others.

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        6 days ago

        falling asleep is the easy part, the hard part is waking up with a sore asshole knowing you need to make it worse to make it better

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          5 days ago

          That’s why hard plugs are for short periods of fun times, and soft plugs are for all day / all night usage.

          Speaking from experience.

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            4 days ago

            Don’t do this too often though! Prolonged dilation (>2 hours) can damage your sphincter and give you incontinence in the long run. Probably not a problem if done rarely, but if it happens regularly it can become a problem

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              4 days ago

              Sadly, there’s a lack of formal studies to determine how often is too often. I think “pay attention to your body” is generally good advice. If anything is sore or hurting, it’s probably time to take a break. Kegel exercises also help keep the sphincter from weakening over time, useful advice even for people who aren’t into butt stuff.

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          5 days ago

          I mean, your hole shouldn’t be sore in the morning unless you’re sizing up with a new plug. Especially not with a stereotypical conical thin necked black silicone one. I’ve slept with plugs with a neck diameter of like 1.25" before