cross-posted from: https://lemmy.world/post/18901880
A Texas mother was taken into custody Tuesday after police alleged her 22-month-old child died when she left the infant in a car outside a Corpus Christi school on one of the hottest days of the year.
The mother, 33-year-old Hilda Ann Adame, was jailed on charges of causing serious bodily injury to a child and child endangerment/abandonment with imminent bodily injury, according to a Corpus Christi Police Department incident report.
It was not clear how long the infant had been in the car before the baby was found unresponsive, according to the incident report.
That would suck to be arrested after accidentally (even if it was pure stupidity) killing your child. My car got to 122 recently. That’s an unthinkably bad day.
Parents, teach your kids how to bang on the door as early as you can, so they can at least ask for help in the event they’re strapped into a car seat and can’t escape.
That’s so fucking dark.
Parents do not need to teach kids to bang on doors. Geez.
Parents need to be responsible and not leave their own kids in a car to die, or don’t be parents in the first place.
Shit happens, even with loving parents. Do you know what it feels like to have four hours of sleep non-contiguous each day for three years? That’s some parents’ experience.
Teaching your kids to survive regardless of your parenting doesn’t mean you’re a bad parent. It means you care about your kids enough to do everything possible to make sure they survive.
Sensibly, you’re right.
In the real world, there’s no excuse, just explanations.
A 2 year old just cannot be expected to handle a crisis of any sort. You can teach them to be careful, to be aware, to be expressive, to be communicative, but never to handle a real crisis.
Just gotta do your best, and hopefully you’ve done enough to ensure they survive to adulthood.
This mistake happens to mature, professional people, of no discernable background, race, income. First parents, second parents. Doctors, layers, teachers, janitors.
Habit distribution, sleep deprivation and distraction have no pattern of afflicting only some cluster of “irresponsible” people, in so much that anyone could determine who is in, or out of that “irresponsible” group. Including you.
https://archive.is/bCS84
Article about how and why these accidents happen, and the fallout
Get this man some condoms. No parent has enough time to properly raise six children. I think it’s cruel to the kids to just keep having them.
The volume of children is less an issue then the infrastructure around raising them.
Ah yes, we should expect others to raise our children.
A program for daycare pickup is raising children? Tax breaks for parents is raising children?
Can’t think of any ways to make children’s lives more safe and predictable? Really? Work your brain a bit.
How’s that in any way relevant to the topic, though? Or are you just digressing? (which is fine)
It’s not relevant to the original post but it is relevant in response to the article from which it was cited.
It’s pretty misleading, since that’s not one of the parents who left their kids in a car