Yes, a server owner can see what is played. But this is sending email summaries about what I am watching on my own server. Even if that friend is not invited to my particular server, and even libraries that I haven’t shared with anyone.

It doesn’t even matter if I’m embarrassed by what it sends. That information is private. Period.

Agree with reducing power. A common mistake when using multiple access points is to set them all to full power.

Devices usually don’t constantly look for a better signal, instead they look for alternatives once the current connection quality is bad. Some devices will hold on for dear life until it’s borderline unusable.

Unless you’re looking for redundancy, the best case scenario is to have only one good option in every area of your home. That’s not always possible, especially where they overlap, but the closer you can get to that ideal, the more likely it is that your device will make the switch.

You should also be able to adjust the backhaul power separately, so you don’t have connectivity issues between the extender and router.