I was expecting this to explode into violence

I guess your comment’s POV, being framed coming from someone who didn’t like people trying to participate with them in their hobbies, lead me to perceive the position being from someone out in the social spaces of their hobbies, where something like that can happen, rather than something like at home, alone, doing their thing.

I guess my point is that the way the comment was worded seems to create the opposite setting of what you were trying say?

you need to be the one enjoying the hobby somewhere else, if this is the case

they are implying you are the orange shirt guy

Points out where working with me give no security guarantees, that they accept when agreeing to allow me to hack them, either in person, writing, or electronic communications, along with allowing the terms to change at any time, for any reason, without notice.