• jet@hackertalks.com
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    9 months ago

    Are we not respecting people’s self chosen labels now? I must have missed the memo

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        9 months ago

        Making fun of people for them asking to have their labels respected seems inconsistent.

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            9 months ago

            I don’t know their labels, but I do know they have expressed a preference to not be called ‘cis’. Respecting people should include respecting their requests not to be labeled with vocabulary they object to.

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              9 months ago

              You’re still not getting it.

              You could have a preference for not being called slurs, as most people do, but “cis” isn’t a slur or a label, it’s a descriptor of if you are or are not transgendered (or agender).

              Everything we know about Jordan B. Peterson clearly tells us he is not trans. Thus, he is cis-gendered.

              If Jordan expressed a preference to not be called a human being, and then someone came to you and asked “what species is Jordan B. Peterson?” , would you try some euphemism for ‘human’ because “Jordan has expressed a preference to not be labeled human” ?

              No, you wouldn’t. You’re just trying to strawman this bullshit so that “since trans people can choose their preferred pronouns, Jordan can choose if he wants to be labeled cis or not”, which is just not how anything works.

              It’s like those Americans who get offended that the Spanish word for black is “negra/negro”.

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                9 months ago

                It’s like those Americans who get offended that the Spanish word for black is “negra/negro”.

                I don’t think we are going to find mutual understanding. I may disagree with people being sensitive of a word, but I cannot call people things they find triggering/insulting - I need to respect everyone including how they identify themselves. I would not call Black Americans words they don’t like, and try to defend it by saying its normal in Spanish.

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                  9 months ago

                  He doesn’t want to be called “not gay” because he doesn’t want gays to exist. He doesn’t want to normalize gays. It’s not about him, it’s about hating others under a thin veil.