• Ricaz@lemmy.world
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      1 year ago

      Just a language thing, sorry. In my country this word does not have any negative connotation.

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        1 year ago

        I think it’s much more likely that it does have negative connotations (especially since the etymology of the word itself is negative, there is no way around that. Never mind the stigma it carries), but no one has pointed it out to you until this point.

        But now you know, and since language matters, please just say the word and in future call us what we are - disabled people.

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          1 year ago

          I genuinely have multiple friends who use that word about themselves. It isn’t negative unless people perceive so.

    • whats_a_refoogee@sh.itjust.works
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      You can’t criticize people for using the word handicapped after it has been pushed as the politically correct word for decades.

      It’s still the mainstream politically correct word in the English speaking West. Using disabled can land you in hot water in a professional or political environment.

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        That’s a pile of bullshit so big it could only come from an abled person who hasn’t spent a second of their life listening to actual disabled people.

        So I can, and I will.

        And people can then choose to be respectful and make the tiniest adjustment to their vocabulary, or they can choose to continue to use a harmful term despite now knowing full well that it is harmful, proving to others just how little of a shit they give about disabled people.

        The choice is yours.